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More than a desk: Why your office should be the ultimate 'third place'.

How your office can become an inspiring and connecting workplace.
13 November 2025 by
More than a desk: Why your office should be the ultimate 'third place'.
Synergo HR, Monique Verellen
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In today's hybrid world, the question is not whether we should go to the office, but why. If your employees are still braving their commute only to huddle behind the same screen as at home, then you are missing the point.

The workplace of the future, and that of now, is not a 'second place' (the mandatory work location), but a 'third place': a space where people want to be for connection, inspiration, and a sense of community.

What is the 'third place'?

The term, coined by sociologist Ray Oldenburg, describes the places that are crucial for our social well-being. Outside of the 'first place' (home) and the 'second place' (the traditional workplace), we think of the 'third place' as your favourite café, the cosy library, or that park where everyone gathers. It is a space where people feel connected to a community and where social bonds are strengthened. 

The mission is clear: we need to transform the office into a social hub – a destination that is so inviting that people come not just to tick off their tasks, but primarily to connect, learn, and feel part of the community.


What is needed for this? 


Opt for a design that encourages spontaneous encounters.

'Purpose' lies, among other things, in the arrangement of the space. The physical environment should create 'friction', but in a positive way: forcing people to bump into each other and have a chat.

Collision zones

Create central, attractive zones that you cannot avoid. Think of a high-quality coffee corner with comfortable seating, a cosy kitchen, or a large reading table. A simple tip: strategically place the printers, the fridge, and the best coffee machine in the middle of the department. If people have to walk for a necessity, give them the chance to say hello.

From desk to sofa

Gone are the monotonous rows of desks. Ensure a variety of seating options. In addition to standard desks, there are lounge areas for informal conversations, quiet concentration cubes for deep focus, and informal meeting tables. This way, everyone can work where they feel most comfortable and productive.

Non-work-related spaces

Show that you welcome the whole person. How about a 'de-stimulation room' for a quick reset, a small yoga space, or a corner for board games? These are places where the person can disconnect from the professional.


Focus on cultivating 'hostmanship' in leadership

The physical space is merely the stage. The actors – the leaders and HR – must take on the role of host, rather than just that of manager.

The host mentality

As a host, you are responsible for the atmosphere and well-being of your 'guests' (the employees). Leaders genuinely ask how things are going, introduce team members to each other, and ensure that everyone feels seen and at ease.

Celebrate the 'small' moments

Connection is created through consistency. Organise planned but informal social events. This could be a weekly free lunch, a joint sports activity after work, or a random 'Happy Hour'.

Intentionality

People do not come to the office to video call. Ensure there is a compelling reason to make the trip, beyond individual desk work. Plan joint brainstorming sessions, organise a Lunch & Learn with a speaker, or launch a new project with a festive kick-off. The office day should be an experience.


Recognition of the whole person

The 'third place' is a space where people not only fulfil a role but can also express their identity and passions.

Share personal successes

Recognition goes beyond sales figures. Create platforms – an internal 'wall of fame' or a specific Slack channel – where employees can share their non-work-related hobbies, volunteer work, or sports achievements. This strengthens bonds on a fundamentally human level.

Bring the outdoors inside

Invest in workshops or courses that are not directly related to the core business: cooking classes, mindfulness training, or a photography course. These are fantastic ways to forge new, human connections.

Flexibility as a friend

Do not forget: the 'third place' must also exist digitally. Ensure that team members working remotely have equal access to informal interaction and social recognition as those in the office. Hybrid means inclusive.


Conclusion

By transforming the workplace from a mandatory location into a social hub – a 'third place' – you invest in the emotional ROI of your people. Loyalty, innovation, and well-being thrive when connection is the foundation. Therefore, give your people the best reason to come: ‘each other’.


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